When I get the urge to say something in these situations I always aim the conversation at the child (so long as it is clear that I am another parent and not a random woman who talks to little children). That way you get the need to say something out without ever really engaging with the parent.

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Sarah FitzGerald
Sarah FitzGerald

Written by Sarah FitzGerald

I write funny things about parenting and well researched things about linguistics

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Haha! Yes, this is my fear - that I look like a kidnapper. But I agree, that is the better option when the child isn't screaming.

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